This blog seeks to be a safe space for beings who identify as multisexual - bisexual, pansexual, polysexual, or any other sexual orientation which involves attractions to more than one gender.
As stated in our ‘About’ section, we seek to do the following:
(a) Provide reliable and accurate information about bisexuality and other multisexualities.
(b) Offer a network of support for beings of all gender identities and sexualities.
(c) Create a safe space for multisexual beings to express their sexuality in a positive way.
(d) Engage in dialogue regarding other intersections of inequality within the queer communities, including but not limited to racism, sexism, and monosexism.
(e) Share individual experiences about bisexuality, both positive and negative.
(f) Explore what it means to be body-positive, sex-positive, and accepting of the diversity of experiences within the multisexual community.
If you have questions about bisexuality or want to help build a community of support and acceptance, this is the blog for you.
DO YOU MISS MY FACE?
Of course you do, who wouldn’t. (That was a rhetorical question don’t answer that)
I am just after an international move, so I have been lax in plastering my face on the internet lately, but I am delighted to see that the submissions have started rolling in!
KEEP IT UP PEOPLE. I can only keep my mug interesting for so long!
On top of that, people have been reblogging the post that started all this saying that it’s a great idea and that they want to do it.
Yes. Do it. And even better, do it here so I can gloriously archive all our wondrous tongue-in-cheek responses to these people and their terribly witty insults.
After all, we have nearly 400 followers at this point.
WHO DOESN’T EXIST NOW, BITCH?
And without further ado, I am going to post some of the fabulous support and praise this blog has been gathering.
YOU. GUYS.
Really? Are you sure? Because I’m only 5’4”, and this hoe has to be at least 6 feet long.
I guess it must be bisexual too.
I’m dating a guy but I still have feelings for a girl.
I don’t think I have a future with either of them.
Am I wasting my time..
As most of you know (because my blog says it), I’m bisexual. I have had an attraction to females (and males) for as long as I can remember. I did not know much about bisexuality, though, so I thought I was just going through a phase because of my hormones and the issues of growing up. I ignored my feelings and often would avoid girls completely, having mostly male friends. I thought being friends with males wasn’t as complicated because if I ended up crushing after one of them, then that would be considered “normal”.
I soon realized that this wasn’t just a phase. Also, some of my friends in high school were coming out. We were in a very conservative private school, however, so I did not feel comfortable coming out as bisexual, and then I heard that my gay friends were being abused and the school was not doing anything about it. A friend that I really loved and respected then told me that he thought bisexuality was “selfish” and “slutty”. I already did not fit into the school because of other aspects of me so I felt that saying I was bisexual would force me to undergo bullying or whatever you want to call it.
When I got towards the end of high school, I began to feel very lonely and wanted a female connection, not in a romantic/sexual way, but just to have a friend of that gender. I did not have female friends and did not know how to talk to women. I met one of my best friends in high school, who also said she was bisexual, and we began to talk about it. In college, it became apparent that the majority of the students were females (as in many colleges nowadays), and I formed friendships with many women that I love and respect.
The reason why I did not form female friends is because I was afraid of falling in love with a woman and then having to ignore all those feelings. Many people have fallen in love and realized that they cannot act on those feelings. It fucking hurts. I deprived myself of 50% of the population because I was worried what people would think and I did not trust myself.
That, to be frank, is bullshit.
I have friends of all different genders, now. Stop worrying about what is “normal”, and instead focus on what makes you happy. If someone has a problem with you, well, it is none of their business.
For the second time in my life, I’m going on a date with a dude. I’m really trying to embrace my fluid sexuality here, but I can’t tell if I’m nervous or just don’t want to do it.
That being said, I miss boobs.
I’m not at all sure of my romantic attraction.
This past New Year, I made the resolution to start doing more things that I’ve never done before, to start pushing myself in an attempt to find who I am and what I want. A lot of this “pushing” has been through sexual exploration. I’ve learned my kinks, preferences and hang ups. I’ve become more…
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And it’s stupid to always go back to the first degree problem. To only mention the fact I’m a bit pissed off with the fact I’m seen as this potential one night stand and a pair of nice legs. But in the scheme of things this don’t even matter. And I’m rambling so fucking much.
I’ve only really recently realised I’m bisexual. I have no idea how to talk to girls. I have no idea how to tell if a girl is gay or bi or anything. I am clueless. But I have so much to give. Come say hello? I’m 18, from England, Yes I have a very posh british accent :|
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